I should have listened to her...oh the things you wish you paid attention to!
"Haha, sure I do. Fancy dinners, Trips to Las Vegas, helicopter ride through the grand canyon, cirque de soleil show, many promises, all felt so wonderful... wedding bells, a couple years of happiness, then a couple years of lots of tears, heartbreak, therapy and testifying in court. I had it all and i lost it all, and it took everything just to keep my insanity. Just trying to be the protective older sister here, not saying anything bad is going to happen, just dont rush things. Everything sounds so great between you two, and even though for years I've been against marriage, I'm not so much anymore. I do want to get married and have a family some day, but I have learned that no matter how great he is, or wonderful things seem, There is always something you don't know and probably won't find out unless you really pay attention. You guys have something good but be careful. I thought I had found something good, also... Many times.
(sorry, thought this was a little too personal to put in a comment)"
From my dear friend A who has gone through pretty much everything I have, although life has been a lot tougher on her. :) Love you A!
Did I really say "it took everything just to keep my INSANITY"? haha! sorry, that made me giggle.
ReplyDeleteOn a more serious note, I never knew things would turn out as terrible for you as they did for me. I just wanted you to be able to see from my side of the field, because not everybody is so lucky to find the perfect man. And damn those who ruin our outlook so that we always have to be so freakin' paranoid. Life isn't as kind as we'd like it to be, but we do choose our battles, so we have to be prepared if there isn't always a happy ending. I do hope and pray that we both find someone who will make us laugh at all the terrible things that have happened to us. I truly believe that will happen. Keep your chin up, and standards high. I love you.
-A
P.S. I love you so much.
ReplyDeleteAnd Miss A, you know I love you soooo much!!!!
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